Love the One You're With: Why teachers stay and what we can learn from them

Why do some teachers thrive in the classroom for decades while others leave early? In Love the One You're With, veteran teachers share their stories, revealing what has kept them motivated, passionate and resilient through the challenges of teaching. Based on candid interviews with teachers who've spent over 20 years in the profession, this book uncovers themes of joy, purpose and adaptability, alongside practical strategies to sustain a fulfilling career.
Packed with wisdom and actionable insights, Love the One You're With offers a treasure trove of ideas for senior leaders and policymakers committed to retaining experienced teachers. From fostering a culture of respect and trust to recognising the deep value of teacher autonomy and collaboration, this book celebrates the powerful impact of longevity in the classroom. For anyone invested in the future of education, this is an essential guide to keeping great teachers where they belong-inspiring the next generation.

Dr Haili Hughes is the Director of Education at IRIS Connect and leads mentoring on the international PGCE and IQTS at the University of Sunderland. She is also a Senior Programme Associate at UCL's Institute of Education and an advisor at the Department for Education. She was a teacher and school leader for the best part of 20 years. She's written numerous books with many more on the way and speaks at hundreds of schools every year, both nationally and internationally. She facilitates the ECF and NPQLTD.